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What to Know about Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is a powerful therapeutic approach that has been making waves in the mental health community. Developed to address complex emotional challenges, DBT offers a unique blend of cognitive and behavioral strategies designed to promote emotional regulation, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness. 


At Be Your Best Self & Thrive, our holistic approach to therapy includes integrating evidence-based treatments, like DBT, to help our clients navigate their emotional landscapes and build fulfilling lives. In this blog, we'll explore the essentials of DBT and how it can support your journey toward emotional well-being.



Key Takeaways


  • DBT Overview: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is an evidence-based approach that combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness to help individuals manage intense emotions and improve relationships.

  • Core Skills: DBT focuses on four essential skills: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness, which together help clients build a more balanced and fulfilling life.

  • Who Benefits: DBT is highly effective for individuals struggling with mood disorders, anxiety, self-harm, eating disorders, and complex relationship dynamics.

  • Duration of Treatment: DBT typically lasts between 6 months to a year, with the exact duration tailored to the individual’s progress and therapeutic needs.

  • Practice is Essential: Consistent practice of DBT skills outside therapy sessions is crucial for achieving meaningful, long-lasting changes.

  • Expert Guidance: At Be Your Best Self & Thrive, clinicians like Rochelle Young, Jamie Molnar, and grad intern therapist Jessi Deleo expertly incorporate DBT into their therapeutic work, providing clients with practical tools to navigate life’s challenges.


Understanding the Basics of DBT


Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is an evidence-based treatment initially developed by psychologist Dr. Marsha Linehan in the late 1980s to treat individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Over time, its applications have expanded, and it is now used to address a variety of mental health issues. DBT is rooted in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) but uniquely integrates mindfulness practices and principles from Zen Buddhism, emphasizing acceptance and change.


Core Components of DBT


  1. Mindfulness: At the heart of DBT is mindfulness, which involves being fully present and aware of the current moment without judgment. This practice helps individuals tune into their thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations, fostering a deeper understanding of their internal experiences.

  2. Distress Tolerance: DBT teaches skills to cope with and tolerate distress in difficult situations, rather than trying to change the situation immediately. This component is particularly useful during crises or when emotions feel overwhelming.

  3. Emotional Regulation: DBT helps individuals identify, understand, and manage their emotions. By learning how to regulate emotional responses, individuals can reduce the intensity and frequency of negative emotions.

  4. Interpersonal Effectiveness: This component focuses on improving communication and relationship skills. It teaches individuals how to assert their needs, set boundaries, and handle conflicts in a way that is both respectful and effective.


Who Benefits the Most from DBT?


DBT is especially beneficial for individuals who struggle with intense emotions, self-destructive behaviors, and unstable relationships. While it was originally designed for those with Borderline Personality Disorder, DBT has been shown to be effective for a wide range of mental health conditions, including:


  • Mood Disorders: Individuals with depression or bipolar disorder can benefit from DBT’s focus on emotional regulation and mindfulness.

  • Anxiety Disorders: DBT’s distress tolerance and mindfulness components are particularly helpful for managing the physical and emotional symptoms of anxiety.

  • Eating Disorders: Those struggling with disordered eating, such as bulimia or binge eating disorder, can find DBT useful for managing urges and regulating emotions tied to food and body image.

  • Substance Use Disorders: DBT can be effective in reducing substance use by teaching alternative coping mechanisms and enhancing distress tolerance.

  • Self-Harm and Suicidal Behavior: DBT’s emphasis on building a life worth living is particularly valuable for individuals who struggle with self-harm or suicidal ideation, offering them tools to manage their emotions and behaviors safely.


At Be Your Best Self & Thrive, we recognize that everyone’s journey is unique, and DBT provides a versatile framework that can be adapted to meet a wide range of therapeutic needs. Whether you’re dealing with intense emotions, relationship challenges, or other mental health concerns, DBT offers practical skills to help you navigate life’s difficulties with greater ease and resilience.


How Long Does DBT Treatment Usually Last?


Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) treatment traditionally lasts between six months to a year, though this can vary depending on the individual’s needs and the severity of the issues being addressed. Traditional DBT is very structured, involving a comprehensive program designed to systematically teach and reinforce core skills. However, as DBT has grown in popularity, many therapists, including those at Be Your Best Self & Thrive, have adapted the approach. They may incorporate DBT interventions more flexibly, depending on the client's diagnosis and specific therapeutic needs. This means that while some clients may benefit from the full DBT program, others might only need certain DBT tools or techniques integrated into their broader therapy work.


Breakdown of DBT Treatment Phases


  1. Initial Phase (1-3 months): This phase focuses on stabilizing the individual and addressing immediate safety concerns, such as self-harm or suicidal behaviors. The therapist also begins teaching foundational skills in mindfulness and distress tolerance.

  2. Skills Training (4-6 months): The bulk of DBT treatment involves learning and practicing the core skills: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. This phase typically involves weekly individual therapy sessions and group skills training classes.

  3. Application and Generalization (6-12 months): As individuals become proficient in DBT skills, they focus on applying these skills to their everyday lives. This phase helps them generalize the skills to different situations, strengthening their ability to cope with real-life challenges.

  4. Maintenance and Consolidation (beyond 12 months): For some individuals, longer-term therapy may be necessary to consolidate gains, prevent relapse, and address any remaining issues. This phase may involve less frequent therapy sessions and continued practice of DBT skills.


While the general breakdown of DBT treatment typically follows these phases, it’s important to recognize that therapy is a personalized journey. The duration and focus of each phase can be adjusted based on individual needs, progress, and specific therapeutic goals. At Be Your Best Self & Thrive, we work closely with each client to tailor their DBT experience, ensuring that they receive the support and guidance necessary for their unique path to healing and growth.


Long-Term Support


While the core DBT program is often completed within a year, some individuals may benefit from ongoing therapy or periodic check-ins to reinforce skills and ensure continued progress. The length of treatment can be adjusted based on the individual’s progress and specific therapeutic goals.


At Be Your Best Self & Thrive, we tailor DBT treatment plans to each client, ensuring they receive the support they need for as long as necessary to achieve their mental health goals.


Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) at Be Your Best Self & Thrive Therapy



Rochelle Young is a dedicated and compassionate therapist at Be Your Best Self & Thrive, specializing in treating individuals dealing with ADHD, anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, and life transitions. With a strong foundation in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mindfulness practices, Rochelle skillfully incorporates Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) into her sessions when appropriate. Her approach is particularly effective for clients who struggle with intense emotions and need practical tools to navigate their daily lives. Rochelle’s empathetic and holistic perspective ensures that her clients feel supported and empowered to make meaningful changes.



Jamie Molnar is passionate about incorporating Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) into her practice, particularly in the areas of distress tolerance, mindfulness, and group work. She loves discussing how we can manage uncomfortable feelings that arise within us and ensure we don’t project them onto others in harmful or destructive ways, which is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. Jamie explains that DBT provides valuable tools to either release these emotions or find comfort when we’re feeling activated. 


Mindfulness is another key aspect that Jamie appreciates, as it directly ties into distress tolerance. She highlights that mindfulness is about developing awareness of sensations and present-moment experiences, teaching us how to slow down and notice what’s happening in and around us—an essential skill for navigating life’s challenges.


Finally, Jamie values the role of group work in DBT. She believes in the power of sharing our stories with others and learning skills from individuals who have had similar experiences. This collective learning and support is a powerful way to overcome challenges and foster personal growth.



Jessi Deleo is a grad intern therapist at Be Your Best Self & Thrive who has trained extensively in couples therapy modalities and has a unique background in teaching acro-yoga to partners. Jessi specializes in fostering healthy relationships and helping individuals manage stress and anxiety. She seamlessly integrates DBT into her work, especially when clients face challenges related to emotional regulation and communication within their relationships. Jessi’s dynamic and holistic approach, combined with her expertise in DBT, provides clients with the tools they need to navigate complex emotions and enhance their connections with others.


Each of these skilled clinicians at Be Your Best Self & Thrive brings their unique expertise to the table, using DBT when appropriate to help clients achieve their therapeutic goals. Whether you’re working with Rochelle, Jamie, or Jessi, you can trust that you’re in capable hands, guided by professionals who are committed to your growth and well-being.


Q&A: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)


Q: What is DBT?

A: DBT is a therapy that combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness to help manage intense emotions and relationship challenges. Originally developed for treating Borderline Personality Disorder, DBT has since proven effective for a wide range of mental health conditions, offering practical skills to enhance emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness.


Q: How does DBT differ from other therapies?

A: DBT stands out from other therapies primarily through its focus on balancing acceptance and change. Unlike traditional cognitive-behavioral approaches that primarily emphasize changing negative thought patterns and behaviors, DBT integrates strategies for accepting oneself and one's current situation, even when facing intense emotions or distress. This acceptance is crucial because it lays the groundwork for meaningful change without overwhelming the individual.


Q: What skills does DBT teach?

A: DBT teaches four key skills: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.


Q: Who can benefit from DBT?

A: DBT is especially beneficial for people dealing with mood disorders, anxiety, self-harm, eating disorders, and relationship issues.


Q: How long does DBT treatment usually last?

A: DBT typically lasts 6 months to a year, depending on the individual’s needs and progress.


Q: Do I need to practice DBT skills outside of therapy sessions?

A: Yes, practicing DBT skills in everyday life is crucial for making lasting changes and achieving therapy goals.


Conclusion


Incorporating DBT into your therapeutic journey can provide powerful tools for managing emotions and improving relationships. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, mood disorders, or simply looking to enhance your emotional well-being, DBT offers a structured and supportive path to personal growth. At Be Your Best Self & Thrive, our experienced clinicians are here to guide you through this transformative process, helping you build a life that feels balanced and fulfilling.


Let's be our best selves and thrive,


Alayna Dorfman


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